a long time missing in action friend confronted me in such a crude way.
actually her approach was so direct.
i don't mind actually.
why should i anyway?
i'm very open minded and direct too what.

she asked me if Dan was born out of da wedlock.
i said yes and asked why.
hence, she asked me, is Dan name is being carried by his father name.
i said yes.
then i also add that, i know religiously it's not allowed to do so but if his daddy wants to carry the sins with him till his son dies.
and she repeat the question two to me again.
again, this time i hint to her that if your hubby wants to do so can, the person won't bother what you written there as the name.
and this time she answered to me bluntly.
religiously it's not allowed you know.
i replied...
that i know.

and if i were to be fucking blunt to her fucking attitude, i can just say that....

dah tau dosa asal buat kan?
nak bual pasal agama konon.

i've a reason why for doing so. if Dan name's not carried by his father and is named after Abdullah, won't people start talking that why Dan and his brother has two different sir name?
and Dan confirm chop with gurantee that people will start mocking him.
my son is so innocent. he knows and knew nothing.
if possible i believe he too doesn't want to be born in such a way.
but what can i do?
god gave me him.
there is reason why right?
for all things comes with a reason.

but luckily for her...
my temperature level still acceptable lah.
'cos definitely im more mellow down then i used to in the past.

count yourself lucky babe.

if u come and ask me for the third time, i bloody confront you.

idiot.